Meeting Women is Difficult for Most Men, but This Simple Guide Can Make Thing Much Easier
Are you a lonely single guy who is in need of some love and affection? Are yo u tired of failing every time you want to talk to a beautiful woman? If “yes” is your answer, then this article is dedicated to you.
Since the beginning of time, men in general have always had a problem approaching women. It’s almost like we see them as supreme and divine beings who are better than us. Women are people just like you and I, meaning they are mortals who also have a hard time approaching men,
Before you approach a woman, make sure you are clean and tidy. Many women tend to hang out by themselves at locations such as Starbucks or the public library because they are hoping a guy will come up to them and talk.
One thing you must do when thinking about approaching a woman is what surroundings are near her. You must take into account every factor in her setting because these will make great conversational pieces.
When engaging in conversation, it is important that you smile often and make eye contact. The smile tells the woman that you are friendly and the eye contact tells her that you are listening and attentive to what she says.
Being a good listener is important because you need to be able to comment on what she says to keep the conversation moving. When asking a question, make sure you ask an open ended question which requires her answer to be an explanation.
Yes or no answers can kill the conversation and leave things awkward between both of you. It is advised that you approach a woman when she is by herself because when friends are with her, it makes things harder on both you and her.
Confidence is the key to getting the girl. No matter who you are, you can ask any woman on a date as long as you have confidence. She is probably just as nervous as you are, so show her that you are well spoken. It’s not what you do, it’s how you do it.
If she is impressed and entertained by you, the you have sealed the deal. Ask her for her phone number and tell her you enjoyed talking with her.
A date can eventually be arranged between the two of you, but the most important tip about being with a woman is to be yourself so that she likes you for who you are.
How to Approach Women Easily: The Top 3 Things to Do
Imagine this scenario: You are at a library and you spot a beautiful woman. She is gorgeous and approaching her is a must. However, something is stopping you.
That’s right, you are nervous! And that is normal unless you have the confidence or looks of Brad Pitt. If you are reading this then you probably need a few tips in order to make it easier for you to approach women. There are three things you can already do to help your case. These are: Dressing well, grooming, and eliminating your nervousness.
Step 1: Dressing Well
The most important thing we want to achieve is boosting your confidence. And in order to do that, you must dress well. Dressing well will allow you to feel and look good.
If you do not feel good and comfortable in your own skin then no other women will either. Women like a confident guy. So first you need to look into your closet and assess the situation.
Remember you must be a tough critique on yourself. You do not need to dress like Cristiano Ronaldo in order to impress, although that would help a lot, but a clean look can go a long way.
Take out any boring t-shirts and old pants. If it is needed, you might need to take a trip to the mall. However, you should go for a casual and fresh look. Do not over-do it. You have to dress appropriately for every occasion; you are not going to dress in a tuxedo if you’re going grocery shopping.
The key is to pick an outfit that will display an energetic feel but yet a comfortable look. For instance, you could start with a casual white t-shirt with a cool black design, some dark blue jeans, and some white Vans sneakers; you will notice that the t-shirt and shoes are matching. That is a simple trick you can use with any colors you like. Now onto the second step.
Step 2: Grooming
This is another crucial step. You want to achieve a fresh look by grooming every single day. It will also boost your confidence as you are always looking your best.
Once again you must look in the mirror and assess the situation. Ask yourself: What is needed? What will help me? Depending on your needs, you might want to come up with a new hairstyle.
You should also keep excellent hygiene. This means showering and brushing your teeth prior to leaving the house, using a deodorant, using cologne (a little amount), and making sure your clothes do not smell. By doing this you increase your odds greatly for a women to find you attractive.
Step 3: Eliminating Nervousness
This is one of the most important and final step. You have accomplished a great look for yourself so far so what is there to be nervous about? After all, women are humans just like you. What we don’t realize is that most, if not all women, are just as nervous as we are.
The mindset when approaching a woman is that she must impress you as much as you should impress her. Desperation is your biggest downfall; if she is not into you then just let it go, do not beg and do not persist. Most importantly, do NOT hesitate prior to approaching her.
Forget thinking about what you should and should not say; this will only add unnecessary pressure. The key is to be yourself and if she does not like you then oh well – It’s her loss.
And there you have it! With these three simple steps you can achieve a great look and eliminate your nervousness which will help greatly in your success to approaching women. So what are you waiting for? Go out there and make a difference for yourself. Good luck (You won’t need it) and have fun!